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2012年12月6日 星期四

Make Him Fall in Love - Understand How the Modern Man Thinks


What does it take to make the modern man fall in love? Is the contemporary male so much different from men of recent generations? Should you try to be the kind of woman your mother and grandmother were when they were dating? Should you follow traditional or modern dating advice if you want to make a man fall in love?

To clear things up right from the start, the contemporary dating world is vastly different from the days when our parents were doing the dating thing. Their concept was pretty well-defined and structured along the lines that the woman was submissive and the man was in total control. A great catch for a man was a woman that could keep a clean house and raise the kids, while a woman did well for herself by hooking a guy that provided a nice income for the family.

This notion seems so ancient today as these qualities rank much lower on the scale of desirable traits for a partner. What a woman needs to make a man fall in love today is more of a mental or emotional approach to relationships. Because men and women today are more equal in financial contributions and in sharing household tasks for the family, attracting a man relies more on understanding the male psyche.

Women need to decipher what men want emotionally from them if they want to work on building a strong relationship. The reality is that men today want a woman that is independent, self-sufficient, and secure in the woman that she has worked to become. They love a woman that is confident and supportive, and these men are more than willing to provide their support in return.

Basically, men want a partner that they can depend on while still feeling that she needs him in a manly sort of way. Let him fix the leaky faucet, solicit his help in moving the furniture around, and show him how much you would appreciate it if he would bring the boxes up to the attic. Then let him know how "manly" he is and that you would be lost without him. Boost his masculine ego and it will be a cinch to make him fall in love.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年12月5日 星期三

Make Him Fall in Love - Understand the Differences Between Men and Women


What makes men fall in love? Do you think that it is up to women to make this happen or do most men reach that point on their own? How are women in the modern dating world supposed to act in relationships? It helps to understand the differences between men and woman and how they approach dating and commitment if you are hoping to make your man fall in love. Follow along for some advice.

Men are very, very hesitant to reveal their most intimate emotions to anyone. They have a fear of looking less manly, or possibly of being more vulnerable to getting hurt. This is why it is so difficult to get men to open up to you.

It will be a process, but you must make your guy feel completely secure in knowing that he can open up to you without any possibility of criticism or judgment. Don't rush the issue, just continue to reassure him with your actions that you support him and are interested in all that interests him. Let this be your prime focus as an emotional bond begins to form between the two of you.

It might help to take a little advice from past generations as well as using ideas from modern society toward dating. In the past women were submissive supporters of their husbands and men were dominant and in complete control. In theory, this is outdated; however, to make a man fall in love today, you can use this concept. Men will always have an emotional need to be in charge, so rather than fight it, use it to strengthen your relationship. Let him take the lead in planning your dates, moving your relationship along at his pace, and feeling as though he can protect and support your needs. This works wonders for a man's ego which in turn will work wonders for the development of his feelings towards you.

Finally, do not pressure your guy to "be in love" before he is ready. You will reach that point sooner than he will, but he will get there eventually if you refrain from trying to force the issue. You can make him fall in love and have fun while it happens, if you just relax and enjoy the process.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月8日 星期一

Get Past the First Date - Understand How Men Screen Women Early On


Are you tired of not getting past a first date? Have you wondered why the guy you met never called you back? Are you aware of how men screen women early on in the dating game? So many women fail to even make it past the first date to get to the second date. Even though the first date may have seemed to have gone well, the guy just seems to drop from the face of the Earth. So, what happened?

The truth is, men screen women very early on in the dating game. Most men know by the first date if the woman they are with is one that they want to continue seeing. Now, he won't tell you this. Men fear rejection themselves on a date so greatly that they actually just won't tell a girl that they don't want to see them again. They will act cool and engaged but after the date, he already has set in his mind to never call her back. If you have found yourself in this situation more than once, these are the key points that men are trying to avoid.

- Girls who are rude: your rudeness is his idea of how you will treat him in the future.

- Girls who complain.

- Girls who talk about other men, particularly their exes: he will think that you're not over him.

- Girls who seem high maintenance: if he feels like he can't please you, he won't even try.

- Girls who put themselves down: if you can't love yourself, how do you expect him to?

- Girls who change or cancel dates at the last minute or show up late: show respect for his time.

- Girls who talk about things like money, clothes, herself, friends, makeup, or gossip.

- Girls who call or text too much: you seem clingy and desperate.

- Girls who aren't honest about details in her life: relationships are built on trust.

- Girls who constantly interrupt: treat him with the same respect you want from him.

When you first meet a guy, beware all of the above mentioned at all costs. These are the main characteristics in women that men are trying to avoid. Obviously, they will want to know more about you and your friends and such later. However, most of these items are things that you should never do, no matter how long you have known him.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.