Get Him To Ask You Out On A Second Date - Great Tips On How To Move Your Relationship Forward

If he asked you out on a first date, do you think he had a good enough time to ask you out on a second date? Are you wondering what attracted him enough to take you out the first time? Do you want to discover the secrets of getting that second or third date with that great new guy? Dating can be a lot of fun when it goes well, but when it doesn't it's a different story. There are a few little tips that can be useful in getting him to ask you out on a second date.

Reveal Yourself Nicely And Slowly

When you met this guy, think about what caught his eye and interested him enough to want to ask you out on a first date. Obviously, if you were upbeat and funny when you met, getting all serious and intense about things on your first date would be kind of surprising for him and might even be a big turn-off. In other words, although there are many sides to your personality, let him see the one that made him take you out in the first place.

It's certainly okay to let him see glimpses of your other sides to intrigue him even more and keep him coming back to find out more. But serve up these glimpses in small bites and stick to that main course he enjoyed when you met. Eventually he'll see you for who you truly are deep down, but remember, the first few dates are just an opportunity to get to know each other a little and see if you like each other enough to keep going out. This is especially the case for that all-important first date.

Find Your Common Ground

When you met, you instantly had something in common because you talked about certain things or shared some experience together, whether it was dancing at the club, watching the same band perform, cheering on a team, or even sitting in the same class together. That gives you a sure topic of conversation for the first date and something to fall back on if the conversation lags. And let's face it; first dates will have their share of awkward moments. Hopefully these are ones you can laugh about later.

Relax And Have A Good Time!

Being friendly and warm on your first date is a good way of getting him to ask you out on a second date. Smile and show some interest in him. You can show him that you're listening to what he has to say by making eye contact. You don't have to pin him in a stare but do make eye contact when he's talking. And keep the eye contact going when you're talking too.

Relax and have fun. That's what dating is all about. If he has fun on the first date, he'll be more likely to ask you out on a second date.

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Kimberly White is a dating and relationship expert. Her passion is to write informative articles for women who want to improve their love lives. Visit her site for more information.