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2012年10月8日 星期一

Relationship Attraction - Dating Tips For Women


What's the big deal on relationship attraction? Do women have to go on dates to find their perfect partner? Exactly what do you need to do to get the best date ever? The dating scene is quite big for women. It is where relationship attraction happens. As much as most women want to deny it, they don't usually enjoy going out on date with different people. However, they have to do it because they haven't seen their match yet. If you are one of the women who are into dating, you certainly need a few dating tips. Sometimes, you think that what you do is right but as a matter of fact, it turns off your date. You do have to remember that when you are out on a date, it is similar as selling as a product. You don't showoff what you don't have but instead you showcase what you have. You try to win a man's heart by showing him who you are but be sure not to tick him off. Here are some good dating tips that you can use. Hope that your date turns out perfectly fine.

Dating Tip #1: Act naturally

Yes, the anxiety will be present. What you have to do is to breathe deeply and enjoy the time you are spending with him. You have to act naturally and don't feel aloof. Just try to picture yourself that you are hanging out with one of your guy friends. And please, don't pretend to be someone you are not. Just be yourself and show him that. Act casually. A guy would not be interested in you if you are pretending to be someone you are not. He can tell if you are pretending or not because it will show in your actions.

Dating Tip #2: You have to speak up

Don't just smile and nod. You have to let the words come out of your mouth. You should know how to converse with him. Likewise, don't make your conversation all about you. Make sure to also get to know him. It is essential that you come in prepared. Have a couple of questions stick to your mind. There will come a time that there will be a dead space in your date. Both of you will have nothing to say. If that happens, you can ask him some questions like what is the craziest thing he has ever done. Also, don't forget to listen as well to the things that he is saying.

Dating Tip #3: Dress well

You are out on your first date. Obviously, first impressions always last. Moreover, it is the time wherein a person judges a book by its cover. What you need to do is to dress appropriately. Make sure that what you are wearing something pleasing. Obviously, a sexy black dress wouldn't go well on a movie date. Likewise, wearing a shirt, jeans and snickers would be inappropriate for a dinner date. For dinner dates, wear a dress. Make sure it's not too skimpy. Skimpy dresses send off a signal to men that you are trashy. You certainly don't want that to happen, right?




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年8月9日 星期四

Attraction Versus Love - Can You Turn Dating Drama Into Emotional Intimacy With 3 Love Tips?


Going out with hot dates who offer big dramas with little contentment is a form of directionless, dead-end dating. Would you like to try a new dating direction that leads you to a loving relationship? Learn how to turn dating drama into emotional intimacy as a prelude to a loving relationship with 3 simple Love Tips:

1. See Attraction With New Eyes

Big attraction comes with big love lessons attached like a bow. Look for the love lesson in the dating dramas that you consistently attract. And ask your self an important question:

Does your drama date have any personality traits of your early caregivers?

If their drama seems familiar, you may have been attracted to your drama date in order to return to the scene of your original childhood hurt and frustration.

According to dating theory formed by renowned psychologist, Harville Hendrix Ph.d, this type of romantic attraction stems from our search for "imago" -- a Latin word meaning, image. Your imago is composed of pictures of people who influenced your life most strongly in your early years. When you face your childhood challenges as an adult with a person who triggers unhealed feelings and patterns, you give yourself an opportunity to heal old wounds.

I often tell my online community that when you learn this love lesson and take action on its healing insights, the attraction has fulfilled its purpose. Now you don't have to keep repeating the same lesson by attracting the same type of drama date into your life, unless you want to.

2. See Dating As A Path To Personal Growth

You are what you are aware of. Like attracts like. This means every quality or quirk that you notice in a date reflects parts of you that can be savored or strengthened.

If you notice a personality quirk that you don't like, you can feel thankful that your date revealed where your personality or behavior could use a tune up.

With this outlook, each date may help you grow as a person -- to strengthen your strengths so your weaknesses lose power, deepen your intelligence and open your heart to genuine love.

3. See With Your Heart As You Choose Your Best Love Match

Beware of superficial wrapping, because the genuine gift lies within.

What inner gifts are an essential foundation for a loving relationship?

- A healthy, adult personality

- Freedom to trust

- Ability to know and be known, to give and receive love

- Healthy self love, self esteem, self knowledge

- A kind heart, freely sharing of acts of kindness

- Personal autonomy and living within means

- Reaching for dreams with solid action each day

- A resilient optimism and passion for life

- An inner goodness that moves you to love

Once you see and share these inner gifts with a potential love match, you will experience a quiet drama of two adults moving closer to oneness based on shared vision and values, emotional intimacy, and enthusiasm for life and love. This emotional intimacy a prelude to a loving relationship.




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