Hello girls.... Are you single and wondering why it seems so easy to find any man to go out with you for a date or two... But impossible to find a man to connect with on a deeper level for something more lasting and meaningful?
You may have found that once that initial infatuation shifts into something more "real", men often shut down and withdraw back to their lonely isolated lives. Why is it that even smart men think that they'd be better off alone and isolated, than if they shared their life and love with a wonderful woman?
Don't keep meeting men and sharing yourself with them, only to have things fizzle out when it's not so "new" anymore. There's one thing that women accidentally do when they're in that casual dating stage that triggers this withdrawal response inside of a man. Of course, it's up to a man to keep himself from withdrawing... But if you don't want to keep running the risk of triggering this, then it's best to avoid this issue altogether.
If you're tired of going on more "dates", only to be less satisfied with your love life, and you'd like to know how to attract the right man for a great relationship from the very beginning... Then i'd like to show you:
are you having an easy time creating the kind of connection with a man that turns a few typical "dates" into the beginning of an amazing relationship? Or... Are you finding it more difficult to find a great man and go from him just feeling "casual" about dating you, to wanting and needing you on both a physical and emotional level?
If so, then i'm going to tell you something that is crucial in winning the right man's heart. This is one thing that men don't talk about but 'drive them wild' when they recognize it and experience with in you. If you learn this and put it to use in your love life, the right man is sure to see you as that unique and special woman he just has to have in his life forever.
There's something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of "connection" and bonding with a woman faster than talk about feelings and experiences.
And that something is "play". See... Men love to be active and to play. Men were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk talk talk their way into a man's heart.
The strange reality is that as you're getting to know a man... More talk will often get you less response from a man on an emotional level. Sure, talking is great to get the facts, and for you to share some things such as your values, and what you do or don't want in a relationship.
But the fact is that men don't "feel it" for you because of what you say. (Just like you don't meet a man and feel it for him because he has a great "pick-up line"!) it's not the words... It's the experience.
And for men, the easiest and most straight forward way for a man to engage in his emotions with you is by doing things with him that don't require talking, but allow you to be playful with him. A couple of examples of playful activity you can do with a man that are sure to dial up the emotional
intensity...
Sports: not all men love sports or are great at them, and you might not like them either, but that's not the point. The point here is to play a sport with a man because it involves aspects of a "game". You
against him competing.
Any sport will do. Ping pong is an easy favorite because no one is really "good"... And you can have all kinds of playful banter hitting the ball back and forth. Pool is another good one since it's easy to find when you're out together, plus you can tease him by placing your gorgeous self in front of where he's aiming and distract him so he misses his shot.
Then, when you're shooting, ask him to come over and help you so he puts his arms around you. Nice!
What man wouldn't love that invitation. Then if you miss, blame it on him in a fun sarcastic way.
Bottom line, if a man is being active and engaging in a playful game with you while there is also some kind of touching involved... It's a magic combination that's sure to raise the attraction level up several notches. And teasing is a universal way of bonding and communicating that is like an unspoken language that all men speak.
Teasing is easier than you might think. The one catch is to do it all with a sense of humor and fun... And don't get too serious. The best way to tease a man playfully is to be sarcastic with him. This kind of thing is subtle, but builds a growing level of attraction inside a man for you. Some women feel uncomfortable with teasing or making fun of a man. But for men, it's again another way they connect socially.
Try it. You'll love how a man responds!
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