The Search For True Love - How to Find Mr Right

How do you search for true love? Are you looking in the right places? How will you recognize Mr Right when you find him? Are you feeling downhearted? Don't worry, you're not alone. Your Mr Right is out there wondering how on earth to find YOU! What you need is a plan to help you in your search for true love.

Remember, love could be absolutely anywhere. Make sure you're prepared to bump into Mr Right in the grocery store or at the laundromat, both of which are places where single guys are likely to be found. NEVER run your errands in dirty old track pants! Your search for true love could take you by surprise when you least expect it.

Have a clear idea of the kind of guy you're looking for and don't compromise on the important points. You should be prepared to compromise on shallow things like looks or what kind of car he drives as these are relatively unimportant in the long run. So long as you feel an attraction toward him, you're on the right path. He doesn't have to look like an underwear model, however nice that would be.

Think about the kind of personality you find attractive. Do you go for intelligence over a sense of fun? Maybe you prefer a sporty guy and don't care if he's not so bright. Now think about where these kind of guys are likely to hang out.

Also, be honest about your materialistic side. If you really cannot contemplate a relationship with a guy who can never pay the bills then perhaps you should avoid budding artists and musicians. Sure, he might strike it rich one day, but you need to love him for the penniless artist that he is right now. If money is truly unimportant to you, maybe you should beware of going for a high flying executive guy, because money is likely to be his main focus in life.

Make sure you and your potential Mr Right are a match in several ways. One common point of interest generally isn't enough to sustain true love in the long run.

By now you'll have a better idea of the kind of person you'd like your Mr Right to be. Focus your search for true love on these kind of guys. If you're not having much luck out there in the real world then consider switching your search to the internet.

Online dating is a fact of life these days. Everybody has tried it and plenty of people have hooked up with their long term loves through dating websites. If you're going to head this way, be honest on your profile. You can state exactly the kind of guy you're looking for to avoid wasting time with guys who just aren't your type. People expect a direct approach on dating websites. Be careful though and always meet in daylight hours in public places the first few times you meet a guy.

Speed dating is another fun way to meet guys. This is another time when it's a great idea to have your Mr Right Checklist ready - you only have a minute or so to see if he's a match so bullet point your requirements to maximize your chances of finding true love here. Take a friend with you for support but avoid going in a gang of girls, the guys might think you're just messing around rather than taking part in a genuine search for true love.

If you've searched and searched and still have not found true love, don't despair. Maybe you're trying too hard. Never give up on your search for true love! Your Mr Right is out there and your paths will cross when the time is right for both of you. Maybe you've already met him and just haven't realized it. Mr Right could appear at any time to sweep you off your feet so carry on, live your life, enjoy looking and your search for true love will end in happiness before you know it.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Connecting on an Emotional Level With a Man - Dating and Relationship Tips

Hello girls.... Are you single and wondering why it seems so easy to find any man to go out with you for a date or two... But impossible to find a man to connect with on a deeper level for something more lasting and meaningful?

You may have found that once that initial infatuation shifts into something more "real", men often shut down and withdraw back to their lonely isolated lives. Why is it that even smart men think that they'd be better off alone and isolated, than if they shared their life and love with a wonderful woman?

Don't keep meeting men and sharing yourself with them, only to have things fizzle out when it's not so "new" anymore. There's one thing that women accidentally do when they're in that casual dating stage that triggers this withdrawal response inside of a man. Of course, it's up to a man to keep himself from withdrawing... But if you don't want to keep running the risk of triggering this, then it's best to avoid this issue altogether.

If you're tired of going on more "dates", only to be less satisfied with your love life, and you'd like to know how to attract the right man for a great relationship from the very beginning... Then i'd like to show you:

are you having an easy time creating the kind of connection with a man that turns a few typical "dates" into the beginning of an amazing relationship? Or... Are you finding it more difficult to find a great man and go from him just feeling "casual" about dating you, to wanting and needing you on both a physical and emotional level?

If so, then i'm going to tell you something that is crucial in winning the right man's heart. This is one thing that men don't talk about but 'drive them wild' when they recognize it and experience with in you. If you learn this and put it to use in your love life, the right man is sure to see you as that unique and special woman he just has to have in his life forever.

There's something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of "connection" and bonding with a woman faster than talk about feelings and experiences.

And that something is "play". See... Men love to be active and to play. Men were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk talk talk their way into a man's heart.

The strange reality is that as you're getting to know a man... More talk will often get you less response from a man on an emotional level. Sure, talking is great to get the facts, and for you to share some things such as your values, and what you do or don't want in a relationship.

But the fact is that men don't "feel it" for you because of what you say. (Just like you don't meet a man and feel it for him because he has a great "pick-up line"!) it's not the words... It's the experience.

And for men, the easiest and most straight forward way for a man to engage in his emotions with you is by doing things with him that don't require talking, but allow you to be playful with him. A couple of examples of playful activity you can do with a man that are sure to dial up the emotional

intensity...

Sports: not all men love sports or are great at them, and you might not like them either, but that's not the point. The point here is to play a sport with a man because it involves aspects of a "game". You

against him competing.

Any sport will do. Ping pong is an easy favorite because no one is really "good"... And you can have all kinds of playful banter hitting the ball back and forth. Pool is another good one since it's easy to find when you're out together, plus you can tease him by placing your gorgeous self in front of where he's aiming and distract him so he misses his shot.

Then, when you're shooting, ask him to come over and help you so he puts his arms around you. Nice!

What man wouldn't love that invitation. Then if you miss, blame it on him in a fun sarcastic way.

Bottom line, if a man is being active and engaging in a playful game with you while there is also some kind of touching involved... It's a magic combination that's sure to raise the attraction level up several notches. And teasing is a universal way of bonding and communicating that is like an unspoken language that all men speak.

Teasing is easier than you might think. The one catch is to do it all with a sense of humor and fun... And don't get too serious. The best way to tease a man playfully is to be sarcastic with him. This kind of thing is subtle, but builds a growing level of attraction inside a man for you. Some women feel uncomfortable with teasing or making fun of a man. But for men, it's again another way they connect socially.

Try it. You'll love how a man responds!

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Are You Ready For Love?

Finding love is a process we often want to speed up. We often ask the following question: When am I going to find the one? It may seem like you have been waiting for an eternity. Even though you may be anxious to find love you need to determine if you are truly ready for love. I was single for a long time before I met my fiance'. I went through a period of time that I was desperate to find love. The thought of finding love seemed to consume me. I thought I really needed to find love in order to be happy. On top of that things were not going very well in my personal life. I had just finished my degree and my search for a descent job seemed hopeless. I guess you can say I was going through a little depression and I was looking for something to pull me out of my funk. I decided to try online dating for the first time even though I had been very skeptical about it. I logged onto the computer and I filled out a very long personality profile. It took forever to fill out the profile which was very frustrating. I must have carried my bad attitude and my current state of depression into the profile filling out process because at the end of that long tedious process I was told "sorry we have no matches for you at this time. Wow!!! I was upset to say the least. If I wasn't already feeling bad about myself now, I had been rejected by an online dating service. At this point I threw an even bigger pity party.

In hindsight, I realize I wasn't ready for love at that time. My emotions were all over the place. If I would have started dating then I would probably have driven the poor guy crazy. I don't think that my "gloomy Gus" attitude would have been too fun to be around. Bottom line I had issue that I needed to work out prior to searching for love.

You may believe finding love is the answer to your problems. You may think that it will cure your loneliness and solve all of your life problems, or at least keep your mother from asking you: "When are you going to get married"? Finding love is great! I am so happy that I have been blessed with a great fiancé. But finding love has not solved all of my problems.

My point is don't look for love in the hope that it will change your entire life. Love greatly enriches your life but it will not completely transform it. If you are expecting for your life to suddenly become perfect, you will be disappointed. You should be living a balanced and healthy life before you pursue love. Finding love is a process, you have to be emotionally stable and clear minded to handle it. You probably are going to have some heartbreaks and disappointments along the way. If you are emotional unstable or socially isolated you will have a hard time dealing with the bumps along the road. One of my favorite song's by India Arie expresses my sentiment exactly, read her lyrics:

"I am ready for love

Why are you hiding from me

I'd quickly give my freedom

To be held in your captivity

I am ready for love

All of the joy and the pain

And all the time that it takes

Just to stay in your good grace

Lately I've been thinking

Maybe you're not ready for me

Maybe you think I need to learn maturity

They say watch what you ask for

Cause you might receive

But if you ask me tomorrow

I'll say the same thing

I am ready for love

Would you please lend me your ear?

I promise I won't complain

I just need you to acknowledge I am here

If you give me half a chance

I'll prove this to you

I will be patient, kind, faithful and true

To a man who loves music

A man who loves art

Respect's the spirit world

And thinks with his heart

I am ready for love

If you'll take me in your hands

I will learn what you teach

And do the best that I can

I am ready for love

Here with an offering of

My voice

My Eyes

My soul

My mind

Tell me what is enough

To prove I am ready for love

I am ready" -by India Arie

You need to prepare for yourself to find love. Here are a few things you can do to be ready for love:

1. Know what you want

Carefully consider what you are looking for in your mate. You need to know what you are looking for before you can find it. You want to have an idea of the qualifications you need in a man to make you happy. If you go looking for love without a "got-to-have" list you will be distracted by all the guys that are out there instead of focusing in on the right candidates.

2. Develop you own social network and group of friends

You don't want to be a "clinger". A clinger is a woman who wants to spend every free moment with her guy. She wants to be talking, texting or hanging out with her guy 24 /7. You will suffocate a guy with this unhealthy behavior. You NEED your own life! You need things that interest you and satisfy you other than your guy.

3. Cut the strings on bad relationships

Often people think they are ready for love but they are still involving themselves in unhealthy relationships. Let go of the past. You need to leave your ex alone, stop calling him when you get lonely or bored. If you don't close the door on old relationships you will not be able to open up the door for the right relationship. Also, stay away from men that are already in relationships or married. If they are already taken they are not for you.

4. Develop yourself

You should have a set of long term and short term goal for yourself. Don't just stare out the window waiting for love, "a watch pot never boils". Focus on developing yourself as a person. Work on improving who you are so that you will be a better person and a more desirable mate. Most men are looking for women that have their stuff together. The competition for a good man is stiff so make sure you are presenting the "best you". Work and develop your physical, mental and spiritual self. There is always something you can do to become a better person!!

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Keep a Conversation Going: How to Keep Your Date Interested

Have you been asked to a date lately by someone? Have you already prepared what clothes to wear that would make you look your best? Are you also thinking of ways on how you can keep him interested and how to keep a conversation going during your date?

Being on a date for the first time can make you nervous. First dates are the make or break type. Being asked for a second date will depend on how the first date turned out between the two of you. How can you say that a date has been successful? During the date, you have to make him more interested in you. You can dress up in order to look pretty but you also have to have something other than your looks to make him ask you on a date again. You must be able to connect with him by having a great conversation. There are times however when you will suddenly run out of words to say, which can then lead to an awkward silence. To keep a conversation going, there are a lot of things that you can do.

1. Talk About Hobbies: Talking about your hobbies can be a good start and will help keep a conversation going. Guys like to talk about the things they like doing such as sports. They will never run out of words when it comes to the sports they like. During the conversation, you can talk about your hobbies and you can ask him about his own. Before you know it, it's already past 9 and you have already been talking for more than an hour.

2. Be Attentive: When you are on a date, refrain from texting or calling others. A lot of women make the mistake of entertaining a text message while half-listening to their dates talk. This will surely offend your date and he will stop talking all of a sudden once he sees that you are not being attentive at all. To keep a conversation going, turn off your cellular phone and give your date all the attention he needs. Being attentive to your date will mean that you respect him and you are willing to listen to what he is talking about.

3. Enjoy the Date: Make the most out of your date and enjoy every minute of it. Guys appreciate girls who know how to enjoy a date. You do not need to be in a fancy restaurant or in a party to enjoy a date. Having just a simple conversation while strolling the park is already fun if you know how to keep a conversation going. Guys like simple dates too.

4. Be Spontaneous: You have to be spontaneous if you don't want to bore your date. Guys have short attention span and if they see the first sign of boredom in their dates then they will lose interest right away. Refrain from going through a routine-type of date. Suggest something fun and different to do other than having a dinner and going to a movie while engaging him in a fun conversation and making sure that you keep a conversation going all throughout the date.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Make Him Fall in Love With You - Ideas That Won't Leave You Dateless!

Are you pondering how to make your crush fall in love with you? Have endless weekends gone by in which you've been lonely and dateless? Do you think that lowering your standards is much more easily accomplished than finding a guy that is actually just right? There are many ways to let your crush know that you love him and help to make him fall in love with you, but here's the ones that will most likely get you the love you deserve.

#1 - Should Sex Wait?

Once you have secured a date, it's important that you don't become just a one-night stand. Hopefully, the guy that you've chosen will not be wanting to have sex on the first date anyways, but it's good to know where you stand on the issue before going on the date. Having sex on the first date sets the sexual tone for the rest of the relationship, making it difficult to make him fall in love with you.

#2 - Is He Ready for Love?

Do people often say about your crush that he's a "player?" Does he have lots of dates all the time and seems unready for a serious relationship? Well, these might be the most obvious signs that your guy is unready to commit, but there's other signs to watch out for too. Has he just ended a long-term relationship and seems a bit unwilling to enter into another one? Or, is his job history unsteady and he's constantly in debt (not ready yet for a wife or children). Then, let him hit the road and look for somebody who's ready for love.

#3 - What Does He Talk About?

Do your conversations tend to be about his dog, work, love interests, and favorite things? Or, does your crush show interest in your own life ambitions and daily affairs? If he's more interested in talking about himself than anything else, he's likely not ready to commit. However, if he wants to know more about you, then you are already well on your way to making him fall in love with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

The Speed-Dating Technique That Makes Men Fall in Love

Why do men take so long to fall in love? Why are men so hesitant when it comes to commitment in a relationship? Are you really as powerless over your love life and your destiny as you feel? Isn't there a faster way to finally win the man of your dreams? Whether you struggle with gaining the attention of one man, or you struggle trying to get even one out of a hundred men to commit, it's time you had a new strategy on your side. Try this secret speed dating techniques that makes men fall in love, and secure the man of your dreams today!

The real key to making men fall in love is to gain an understanding of the way they think. Believe it or not, male psychology is surprisingly similar to female psychology. The only difference is that men tend to be more cautious about love then women do. Whether or not you can believe it, men are actually more afraid of having their hearts broken than you are!

Although it may often seem that men are only interested in sex, beneath whatever physical motivations they may advertise, they're really looking for a deep, personal connection with a woman. For most men, the ideal woman is someone they can open up to, someone they can share their thoughts and feelings with, and someone who makes them feel safe in doing so.

The problem is that men, at the same time, feel a need to remain emotionally guarded. By opening themselves up emotionally, they feel as if they're making themselves vulnerable. In a sense, this is true. Whenever a man gives you his heart, whenever a man lets himself love you, he gives you the power to break his heart. Consequentially, men are cautious when falling in love because the last thing they want to do is to give this power to the wrong person. The one thing men are most afraid of when falling in love is that their love will be abused.

That's why in order to make a man fall in love with you he needs to know you first. He doesn't just need to be familiar with who you are he needs to know you on a most intimate level. He needs to have a solid sense of the kind of person you are, whether you're truly caring or selfish, whether you're truly tender or harsh, before he can decide whether or not he trusts you with his love.

Under normal circumstances, the process of establishing the emotional intimacy necessary to make a man fall in love takes time. Friendships do not blossom over night, and for a man, true love is the furthest extension of a sincere friendship. However, you can speed up the process of establishing these bonds by adjusting your dating style to provide as much experience as possible in the shortest amount of time.

To hasten the foundation of friendship and intimacy, try abandoning traditional dating procedures. Instead of going out for a nice, long romantic dinner, arrange evenings that fit in as much experience as possible.

Set up an evening equivalent to a night at the county fair. Plan a great variety of activities within the short span of a few hours. The more you opportunities you give him to see you in different contexts, the more well-rounded his conception of you will be. And by painting a varied picture of yourself to him, you'll instill a sense of intimate knowledge in him. He'll feel like he knows you better after one night, and that may ultimately make him fall in love with you faster.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Define Love - Establish a Reciprocal Mutual Relationship - That's Dating Smart!

So you want to know what love is. I know I did when I first started dating. I can't begin to recount the number of times I thought I knew-only to learn differently-much to my chagrin. Here I was, in love with all my heart, giving the best that I could give...and then "whambo" the relationship fell apart.

Date smart, establish a reciprocal mutual relationship and you will find love.

Have you experienced relationship problems because you couldn't define love clearly? Maybe the same thing happened to you that happened to me. Don't despair because I have some good news for you.

And it is this: Love is a Reciprocal Process. You give your best; you deserve the same in return. I'm never settling for less than what I deserve in a relationship again. And you don't have to either.

Mutual respect is the key to attaining a balanced relationship. It means that your partner extends mutual respect to you. He sees the uniqueness of your being; your ideals; your vision; your goals and he appreciates your right to free expression in an atmosphere of respect and acceptance.

It means you can talk to him from the depth of your heart and he will listen respectfully and never attack or withdraw from your openness.

You know how we women are, we tend to give too much, too soon. And because of this, sometimes our partner thinks he can mold us into an image he wants us to be. He may want us to be someone else or something else we don't want to be, nor can possibly be. Nonetheless he takes on an "I can change her" attitude.

For instance, say you're just a girl who wants to marry, have children, and become a stay-at-home mom. You want to join the PTA, and Girl Scouts. You want to take the kids to dancing classes, Little League Baseball, music lessons and the like.

Nothing wrong with that--except if your partner wants you to be, instead, a career woman like the women he works with, thus defeating your own dreams of full-time motherhood.

So he begins to berate you for either not completing a college education, or for not doing anything with a college diploma you may have--even though you have expressed your desire for motherhood and family life foremost.

In that case he would not be accepting you. That would not be showing mutual respect. That's no way to live. Mutual respect demands that our partner accept our individuality.

Learn to date smart by establishing reciprocal appreciation. This allows you to reach out enthusiastically, even beyond your own center, to express yourself in ways you never expected you could, even with greater confidence because you have something valuable to share YOU, your ideas and dreams and he appreciates that!

And of course we extend to him the same understanding of reciprocal and mutual respect as the definition of love.

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